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You're on a roller coaster of emotions and that anxiety can cause you to behave and act in crazy ways!
You either can't stand the thought of looking at food or you eat yourself into a frenzy.One minute you're crying your eyes out and the next minute you're so angry at your ex you can't see straight.
You feel guilty and sad and angry...or even worse, you just want to get even. One minute you're hating your ex with a passion and the next minute loving them-warts and all. You would probably do anything to just make up and start over. Rest assured help has arrived. Welcome to the Secrets To Win Back Your Ex!
SECRET # 1:
STOP TRYING TO WIN BACK YOUR EX!
Whatever it is you are now doing to win back your ex...STOP! It isn't working.
Let me repeat that. It--is--not--working, so just STOP!
My guess is that your are constantly bombarding your ex love with text messages and phone calls trying to keep the dialogue going, trying not to lose contact. Maybe even begging them to take you back.
Remember: What You Resist Persists!
You need to first stop resisting the fact that your ex broke up with you. As difficult as it is, accept the break up at this time. Desperate times call for desperate measures.
Hopefully, it isn't going to be forever, so for now just let go and release it. Take a deep breath and just let it be. Release all the clinging and grasping because it will just push your ex further away from you and you won't have any chance whatsoever of winning them back. So, the first step is to break off contact with your ex. (Ouch! I know. I know you don't want to. But....)
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BECOME EMPOWERED!
A funny thing happens when you do this. You tend to be more involved in developing and improving yourself and your own life. That, my friend, helps you become more self empowered and a more interesting person. It also gives your ex love time apart from you and time away from the quarrels and problems. They may start to miss you and remember what they loved about you in the first place. It also gives them time to consider how lonely life would be without you.
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IF YOU HAVE IT YOU DON'T WANT IT!
Everyone tends to want what they don't have! So while you are waiting, just keep improving yourself and your life. The better you get and the more you live your life happily without your ex, the more desirable you probably will be to your ex. This may sound counter- intuitive, but believe me it can work. As the old saying goes, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." This truism has been around for ages for a reason! Be patient and give your ex time to remember what a special person you are and what a special couple you were when together.
Do you want to know one powerful Secret to Win Back Your Ex? Give them personal space and time and a reason to return to the love you shared. I invite you to leave any comments or your own words of wisdom below.
