CAN I WIN BACK MY EX WITH MANIPULATION?

There are times when we can't think of anything that will work to get back with someone we love. So what do we do? Sometimes we resort to that dirty little word called manipulation to win back an ex. Manipulation is that backroom secret that nobody wants to talk about. We've all probably done it when we feel there is no other recourse.

 In Buddhist philosophy there is a principle called "right action." A similar thought exists in Christianity which says you should "do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Both of these philosophies have the same message. Manipulation of another person is probably not the best idea. It is certainly not the road you want to travel in trying to win back the love of your ex.

WHAT'S WRONG WITH MANIPULATION?

What is so wrong with manipulation if it works? Manipulating another might help you to achieve your short term goals, but it does not help to build a long term relationship. Manipulating and mind games is dishonest and can easily corrode the existing relationship. On a subconscious level, the manipulated person knows they are being controlled by another and the feeling of distrust may grow.

A successful relationship is built on trust, integrity, and communication. These are the stepping stones to a healthy and happy connection between two people. You cannot win back an ex with manipulation and maintain mutual respect for yourself or your partner. Honor the bond between you with fair play instead of exploitation. Give your love the opportunity to grow and flourish!

I'd love to hear your thoughts on this subject. Please feel free to leave you words of wisdom in the comments section below.